Introducing: Honorable Chaos

The only online tech leadership community that teaches you to win WITH your values, not DESPITE them.

This isn't another productivity hack or leadership framework that looks good on paper but crumbles under real-world pressure.

This is a complete transformation of how you show up as a leader—so you can create the impact you want while staying true to who you are.

All for less than the cost of a therapy session.

SAVE THOUSANDS OVER 1:1 COACHING!

Only $150/month

...for the frameworks, live coaching, and supportive community you need to lead with honor and integrity so that your reputation grows, opportunities open up, and your career trajectory shifts.

24/7 ACESS TO THE COMMUNITY

NO CONTRACTS. CANCEL ANYTIME.

Joining NOW is the ONLY way to secure your spot for the lowest price you'll EVER see for Honorable Chaos.

From the Desk of Jen Bunk, Ph.D.

Career Coach for Tech Leaders &

CEO @ The People Stack

If I'm being completely honest with you—and when am I not?—I didn't create this community for you.

I created it for me.

Because I'm lonely.

And I have a feeling you might be too.

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I spend my days in 1:1 coaching sessions with tech leaders who are navigating impossible ethical decisions. Leaders who call me because they're the only ones in their company asking, "But what about the impact on people?"

Leaders who lie awake at night wondering if they're crazy for caring so much about doing the right thing.

And here's what's strange: Even though I'm helping these incredible humans transform their leadership and create real change, at the end of the day, there's a part of me that feels... empty.

Because as powerful as those individual transformations are, I'm craving something more. Something I can't get from even the most successful 1:1 coaching relationship.

I'm craving community.

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My husband Rob is a tech leader himself. He leads with the same integrity and honor that I teach my clients.

We talk about these challenges every single day—the impossible decisions, the pressure to compromise, the loneliness of being the adults in the room when everyone else seems to have lost their moral compass.

Some nights, lying in bed after another day of coaching leaders through ethical dilemmas they should never have to face alone, it feels like we're the only two people on the planet (besides our clients) who still believe that you can be successful AND honorable.

That you can hit your targets AND sleep well at night.

That leadership doesn't have to mean selling your soul.

And that realization broke my heart.

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Because I know there are more of us out there. I coach them every day. But they're scattered across companies, isolated in their integrity, carrying the weight of doing right in a world that often rewards doing wrong.

They're renegades, just like you might be. Just like I am.

And renegades, by definition, don't run with the pack.

But what if we could create our own pack?

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I realized I was trying to solve loneliness with more 1:1 sessions, when what my soul was craving was the electricity of being in a room (virtual or otherwise) full of people who GET IT.

Who understand why you'd rather take the heat than compromise your values.

Who don't roll their eyes when you ask, "But is this right?"

Who celebrate wins that actually matter, not just metrics that look good on a dashboard.

I need this community as much as you do. Maybe more.

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After years of coaching—both individually and in groups—I've learned something profound:

When good leaders connect with other good leaders, magic happens.

Not just individual growth, but collective courage. Not just personal breakthroughs, but systemic change.

I've seen it happen before. I know what's possible when ethical leaders stop operating in isolation.

But COVID shifted everything toward more individual work, and that group magic... it fizzled. I let it fizzle.

And I miss it desperately.

The leaders I coach are phenomenal humans making an incredible impact. But too many of them are doing it alone, carrying the weight of their integrity in isolation.

And I'm tired of watching that happen.

I'm tired of being the only person in their corner when they should have an entire community cheering them on.

I'm tired of sending them back into toxic cultures with just our coaching session as their armor.

I'm tired of knowing there are hundreds of leaders out there who share our values but have never met each other.

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This isn't just a professional development program. This is my attempt to cure the loneliness epidemic among tech leaders who actually give a damn.

This is where we come together—not to eliminate the chaos, but to face it with our values intact AND with each other's support.

To celebrate leaders who choose the harder right over the easier wrong. To remind each other that we're not crazy for caring this much.

This is The Resistance.

And if you're reading this and feeling that familiar ache of being the only one who seems to care about doing the right thing, if you're tired of being a renegade all by yourself, if you're craving connection with people who share your values...

You belong here.

We need each other.

I need you.

And I bet you need us, too.

More than ever, I NEED to be surrounded by like-minded and like-hearted people.

I bet you feel it too.

Welcome home, fellow renegade.

With love and solidarity,

Jen

P.S. Rob keeps telling me this community is going to change everything—not just for the people who join, but for the entire industry. I think he's right. When ethical leaders stop operating in isolation and start operating as a collective force? That's when real change happens.

If you can relate to any of these statements, I made Honorable Chaos specifically for you!

You're tired of leadership advice that ignores the messy reality of tech culture.

You want to succeed without sacrificing your integrity or your team's wellbeing.

You're ready to do the inner work that create lasting outer change.

You believe there's a better way to lead—even if you haven't found it yet.

You're NOT looking for quick fixes or magic bullet solutions.

You think "soft skills" are a strength and are actually your competitive edge.

If You're Nodding Along...

Honorable Chaos Was Made Just For You!

Here's what changes when you join...

Week 1: You implement your first Core Behavior and immediately notice how differently people respond to you in meetings.

Month 1: You're making decisions faster and with more confidence because you have a clear framework for what "honorable" looks like in practice.

Month 3: Your team starts commenting on how much calmer and more focused you seem. Projects start flowing more smoothly.

Month 6: You realize you haven't had that Sunday night dread in months. Work feels meaningful again.

Month 12: You're the leader others come to for advice. You've become the example of what's possible when you refuse to compromise your values for short-term wins.

SAVE THOUSANDS OVER 1:1 COACHING!

Only $150/month

...for the frameworks, live coaching, and supportive community you need to lead with honor and integrity so that your reputation grows, opportunities open up, and your career trajectory shifts.

24/7 ACESS TO THE COMMUNITY

NO CONTRACTS. CANCEL ANYTIME.

Joining NOW is the ONLY way to secure your spot for the lowest price you'll EVER see for Honorable Chaos.

Stop sacrificing your soul for success.

Client Testimonials

"I'm an engineering leader and CTO.

Jen and Rob helped me through the

accelerator program to land my dream

job and increase my base

compensation by over 50%..."

Jeff Nappi

CTO

"[...] about three years after I landed

that new dream job at a 40% plus raise

of what I was making previously, that company went out of business. I had

the clarity of where I was going to go,

and that's helped me keep my

confidence to, go out there and find

the new dream job, which I did, and

only about three months time."

Andy Hiatt

Director of IT

"I learned a number of techniques, frameworks and new approaches to work that helped me land not one, but two dream jobs."

Serge LeBlanc

Director of Data

I'm currently filling in forms for onboarding to a new position, which is a 2x increase in my previous salary

Daniel Rodriguez

Engineering Manager

"I'm a lot happier and the good part about it is I almost never work more than an eight-hour workday and spend a ton more time with my family. "

Chuck Carpenter

CTO

"I am leading a small team and I can confidently frame conversations, even though they might make some people feel uncomfortable, because I have the tools to have them honestly and authentically."

Sarah Viera

Product Team Lead

"Rob and Jen have a great ability to filter out noise and help people like me focus on their goals. Sometimes we are too close to a situation to get an objective perspective. They helped me get clarity to see the outcomes I actually want to achieve."

Dave Hume

CISO

Jen and Rob are the real deal. They're authentic and truly wants to help you excel in your career. I have gone through the People Stack program and it is truly amazing. Initially, I was skeptical-- was this just another fast-talking career coaching sales pitch with a bunch of psychology mumble-jumble? Let me tell you, it is life-changing. Career accelerating. Trust Jen & Rob. They knows what they're talking about, and honestly, truly want to help you breakthrough to levels and opportunities you honestly would have never thought possible. 5+ stars for Jen and Rob and their People Stack team. It is absolutely worth the price of admission. The ROI is there. Invest in yourself, enhance your career and your life. It is possible!!

Andy H.

IT Director & Entrepreneur

Working with Jen and Rob at The People Stack has been a game-changer for me. They provided the clarity I needed to confidently present myself as the Technical Leader I am. I had been struggling with self-confidence regarding my resume and interview presentations. Jen helped me create a resume that truly reflects my leadership and professional value, clearly showcasing the impact I can bring to any organization. During our mock interview sessions, Jen challenged me to craft alternative stories that align with my mission statement, ensuring I can articulate my achievements effectively for maximum impact. Investing in The People Stack has been the best decision I've made for my career. The lessons and clarity I've gained are now my secret weapon in my managerial toolkit. Though I call it a secret, I genuinely hope every Technical Leader discovers and utilize this invaluable resource.

Giuseppe T.

Software Engineering Manager

The eight short weeks I spent working with Jen and the People Stack team were terrifically awesome! I can honestly say Jen cares about the people she works with, and wants everyone of them to come away a better person, who can confidently say they have found a new skill set they are already utilizing in their professional lives. That new skill set may be knowing how to better manage teams, but the real magic is learning to Evangelize Your Excellence! As a result of learning to this, I have gained confidence in putting myself out there, learning the art of negotiating, and how to 150% show the value I bring to the table.

Todd U.

IT Director

It was great working with Jen and Rob because, without them, I don't think I would have respected my professional ability enough to stand up for what would have been right or what I deserve as a professional. They helped me through some major job negotiations and conversations and helped me stay accountable to my originally stated goals. They helped me think about how I talk about what I do and really pushed me to put together clear statements about what my value-add is. I now know how to talk to people about what I do in a way that doesn't feel goofy, cheesy, fake or like bragging.

Jackie L.

Data Analytics Director

That first conversation with Jen, I was feeling really bad about myself. I just described everything to her, and she said, 'Oh yeah. It's this, this, and this, right?' It seemed like magic, but it's really the strength of her experience. Now I am leading a small team and I can confidently frame conversations, even though they might make some people feel uncomfortable, because Jen and Rob gave me tools to have them honestly and authentically. The most confident people that I know are not afraid to say, 'I don't know.' And I would not have any sense of confidence that that kind of a person could be me without having gone through the People Stack program. It's been a transformative experience, and I'm very grateful."

Sarah W.

Product Leader

Jen's help in re-writing my resume was invaluable, being both specific and immediately actionable. With in a week of posting my new resume and changing my LinkedIn profile to match, I received interest from a recruiter that resulted in me being a top-two finalist for a job posting that matched my skills and experience.
Jen's approach to job searches is refreshing, focusing on finding a job that needs someone just like me, instead of trying to change my true self to fit into some employers pre-determined mold. This has resulted in finding a job that essentially, no one else on the market could fill, putting me in a very strong negotiating position.

Gary B.

Sr. Data Leader

Jen and Rob's passion for helping her clients reach their career goals is inspiring! I've gotten a lot out of their program. It's definitely been uncomfortable and challenging to re-think my leadership approach - which is good. I'm slowly integrating more into my daily work. I love having continued access to the materials so that I can continue to grow as a leader and manager.

Eric R.

Tech Team Lead

I think that what is beneficial about having career coaches, like Jen and Rob, is that they are there as a third party for you trying to come at it from a non-biased perspective.  It was also really valuable getting feedback like, 'That's bullshit you need to change it' and 'That's just a platitude. That's not actually what you feel.' That's about as unbiased as you can get in terms of seeking out a third party to bounce ideas off of and make sure that you're working toward the right direction.

Ethan P.

Director of Product & Technology

Here's What You Get When You Join Honorable Chaos Today

#1 The Foundations Course:

Your Honorable Leadership Operating System

Inside this video training course, you'll have access to my 4 Core Leadership Behaviors curriculum. This will provide the foundation for our interactions inside the Honorable Chaos community. I share everything you need to show up with honor every day at work, even when the chaos is at ridonkulus levels. Embrace these 4 behaviors - make them habitual - and you'll be a source of calm-cool-collected energy that's full of integrity.

Highlights:

  • Quick Win Alert: Get your boss to actually HEAR and implement your ideas (this one technique alone could save you months of frustration)

  • Personal Assessment: Discover which of your leadership strengths is secretly sabotaging you (and how to turn it into your superpower)

  • Daily Honorable Behaviors Blueprint: No more wondering "What should I do?" when the pressure's on

  • Mindset + Heartset + Soulset Framework: Align your actions with your deepest values (yes, we're going there—and it works)

  • Leading Through the Chaos (Tech Decision-Making in Uncertain Times): Spoiler alert - decision-making is central to the 4 Core Behaviors. I give you frameworks and heuristics for navigating even the gnarliest uncertainty

  • Cultivating Multiple Paths to Victory: This is essential in leadership. Focusing on one way to win is a great way to lose. Don't blind yourself. I'll show you how.

#2 The Flow Library:

Stay Sharp, Stay Aligned

ON TOP OF the Foundations Course, you will access 1 BRAND-NEW training every single month - highlighting a strategy, system, or skill to keep you ahead of the chaos.

Highlights:

  • Advanced strategies for maintaining your center when everything's on fire

  • Cutting-edge approaches to leading through uncertainty

  • Practical tools for staying connected to your purpose when the pressure's intense

#3 Bi-Weekly Live Coaching with Me & Rob

If our previous group coaching calls are any indicator, this is where the magic happens!

We’ll answer ANY leadership or career question you’ve got, and you’ll walk away with certainty, clarity, and action steps.

You'll know exactly what to do during that meeting with your boss, on the Zoom call with the overseas team, or when you need to address a tough issue with a team member.  

Every two weeks, bring your toughest work and leadership challenges and walk away with:

  • Specific action steps you can implement THIS WEEK

  • Real-time problem-solving for your actual situations

  • Accountability that keeps you moving forward (not just talking about change)

#4 24/7 Community Access (via Slack)

No Social Media Drama

This is where you connect with like-minded and like-hearted techies!

Hang out on a platform that WON’T plaster you with ads or get you distracted down a rabbit hole of...WTF? He said WHAT??!!

No politics. No finger-pointing. No gaslighting.

Just genuine, uplifting conversations and collaborations.

Highlights:

  • Get support when you need it, not when the algorithm decides to show your post

  • Network with people who understand the unique challenges of leading with integrity in tech

  • Access collective wisdom from leaders who've been where you are

  • Collaborate with other values-driven leaders and multiply each other's efforts

Plus, These MAJOR Bonuses to Help You Make the Most of Your Membership...

BONUS #1: Community to Co-Conspirators

(Your HC Activation Guide)

You didn't join Honorable Chaos just to watch from the sidelines.

You're here to amplify your impact, find allies who share your values, and create change bigger than what any one leader can accomplish alone.

This bonus training shows you how to transform casual connections into powerful collaborations that multiply everyone's impact.

The most successful HC members won't be the ones who just show up. They'll be the ones who show up ready to conspire for good.

This training gives you the playbook.

BONUS #2: 6 Micro-Habits To Operate

From Confidence Instead of

Fear, Worry, & Overwhelm

Confidence Micro-Habits is one of my most popular paid courses. You get it for FREE when you join Honorable Chaos.

Because being a Renegade requires unshakeable confidence.

In this course, I show you how to unlock your confidence as a tech leader in less than 10 minutes a day.


You'll learn the 6 straightforward, specific, and easy habits to build so you can finally operate from confidence consistently.

BONUS #3: How to Communicate Your Mission, Vision, & Values

(even when others have lost their way)

Communication is key.

And when there's chaos - crisp, clean, and confident communication is essential.

In this training, I show you how to get clear on your Mission, Vision, and Values.

AND articulate them in a way that feels easy, authentic, and full of integrity.

SAVE THOUSANDS OVER 1:1 COACHING!

Only $150/month

...for the frameworks, live coaching, and supportive community you need to lead with honor and integrity so that your reputation grows, opportunities open up, and your career trajectory shifts.

24/7 ACESS TO THE COMMUNITY

NO CONTRACTS. CANCEL ANYTIME.

Joining NOW is the ONLY way to secure your spot for the lowest price you'll EVER see for Honorable Chaos.

Let's be Honest...

The Price to Join this Community

is a Drop in the Bucket

Compared to What You're Gonna Get

The investment in joining Honorable Chaos pays for itself.

Think about it.

How much is your peace of mind worth?

How much would you pay to wake up excited about your work again?

To lead a team that actually trusts and respects you?

Most leadership coaching costs $200-500/hour. Executive coaching can run $1000+/session. Our 1:1 packages start at $3k.

You're getting ongoing access to proven frameworks, live coaching, and a supportive community for less than the cost of a single therapy session.

But here's the real ROI...

When you lead with honor and integrity, people notice. Your reputation grows. Opportunities open up. Your career trajectory changes—not despite your values, but because of them.

SAVE THOUSANDS OVER 1:1 COACHING!

Only $150/month

...for the frameworks, live coaching, and supportive community you need to lead with honor and integrity so that your reputation grows, opportunities open up, and your career trajectory shifts.

24/7 ACESS TO THE COMMUNITY

NO CONTRACTS. CANCEL ANYTIME.

Joining NOW is the ONLY way to secure your spot for the lowest price you'll EVER see for Honorable Chaos.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

What and when are the Group Coaching Calls?

We hold group coaching calls every other Tuesday at 4pm Eastern. Hop on Zoom and join Jen, Rob, and your fellow Honorable Chaos-ers! The calls will run for about an hour These sessions are recorded and you will get access to them - and the BEST way to benefit is to be there live. We always start with quick celebrations. Then we dive into that month's training. After that, it's the Q&A round. Every call is different depending on the training theme and the questions you have. And as long as you show up coachable, you will ALWAYS leave with aha's and clear next actions - and hopefully with a huge smile on your face. 😉

How long will Honorable Chaos last?

Your membership is month-to-month with no commitment. Don't be surprised when, a year later, you wonder how you lived without your HC tribe. 😉

Can you tell me about yourselves?

Here’s Jen’s LinkedIn profile. And here’s Rob’s. We’re the Co-CEOs at The People Stack (yes, we're married) and if you join us, we’ll be your coaches. (Yes, you get direct access to us.)

I'm in tech but not a leader. Is this a fit?

Leadership is everywhere. If you currently don't have a leadership job title but what I'm saying is resonating, it's a fit.

I'm not in tech. Is this a fit?

This is a community for folks in tech and remember that tech is very broad. If you work in service of solving problems for others, you work in tech. That could be in product, project management, ops, communications, or QA. That's all tech.

If you want to chat with me about this further, feel free to shoot me a message on LinkedIn.

SAVE THOUSANDS OVER 1:1 COACHING!

Only $150/month

...for the frameworks, live coaching, and supportive community you need to lead with honor and integrity so that your reputation grows, opportunities open up, and your career trajectory shifts.

24/7 ACESS TO THE COMMUNITY

NO CONTRACTS. CANCEL ANYTIME.

Joining NOW is the ONLY way to secure your spot for the lowest price you'll EVER see for Honorable Chaos.

My Final Parting Words to You...

You didn't get into tech to leave your soul at the door every morning.

You got into this industry to build something meaningful. To solve real problems. To create technology that actually serves humanity.

But somewhere along the way, the industry started asking you to dim that part of yourself.

To stop asking uncomfortable questions. To go along with decisions that make your stomach turn. To pretend the ethical compromises are "just business."

Here's what nobody tells you about leading with integrity in tech:

You're not supposed to do it alone.

You've been carrying a weight that was always meant to be shared.

Honorable Chaos isn't about adding another line to your resume or learning another leadership framework.

It's about bringing MORE of your soul to work, not less.

It's about having the courage to call out the BS.

To stand up for what's right, even when your voice shakes.

To be the James Holden in a room full of people choosing convenience over conscience.

To lead with the full force of your values—unapologetically.

This is your permission to stop dimming your light.

To stop being the only adult in the room.

Because while you may be the only adult in your current work room, you're not the only one in the world.

Join your people and amplify what you've always known was right.

The Resistance isn't here to change who you are.

We're here to help you be MORE of who you are.

Welcome home, renegade.

--Jen

SAVE THOUSANDS OVER 1:1 COACHING!

Only $150/month

...for the frameworks, live coaching, and supportive community you need to lead with honor and integrity so that your reputation grows, opportunities open up, and your career trajectory shifts.

24/7 ACESS TO THE COMMUNITY

NO CONTRACTS. CANCEL ANYTIME.

Joining NOW is the ONLY way to secure your spot for the lowest price you'll EVER see for Honorable Chaos.

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